Rapunzel,

I have found that when I obsess about whether to tell T something big or not, that when I finally tell him, it's much bigger to me than it is to him. Recently I shared some stuff that had been weighing oh so heavy on me and he just sort of nodded but didn't comment at all because he could see that I was in pain. I was okay with his reaction and I'm sure we will come back to this topic at this point when it presents itself. So, I think that when you get to therapy if this issue is still present you should talk about it and just see where it goes. If you have a good relationship with your T then I bet it will go okay. Please tell her about the reaction you are worried about, if that's what you need to do. My T always says, "what do you need right now?"