I have never seen my T outside of therapy but early on, I found out that he sends his kids to the same school my son graduated from. I was happy to hear this because I felt like we shared a common philosophy. Recently I ran into a friend I hadn't seen in quite a while. We were catching up and I mentioned that I was working with a therapist. She asked who and I gave his name. She said she knew him in the context of her ex-husband who is also a T. I didn't like that she knew him and was upset that I told her I was in therapy. I don't want to have any personal second-hand information because I am afraid it will upset my therapy.