are you able to find your birth certificate and social security card? do they give you spending money for when you go out with your boyfriend? if so, he could take you to the dmv to get an id card. could he teach you how to drive in his car? you say they pay you well. is there enough money in there for you to move out on? would your boyfriend let you move in with him? are you at that stage in your relationship? if you can get an id then you could go to the bank and withdraw all the money in your account. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome