It's always been like this…I can usually orgasm pretty easily on my own usually, but with I'm with someone else, nothing. I can barely feel anything at all. At first I thought if I was with a partner more than once and/or was sober, that it would work. But still, my body has very little response to another person. For the record, I'm talking about sexual contact outside of intercourse as I'm not ready to lose my virginity yet.

It has nothing to do with arousal either, because I'm usually very aroused (even to the point of it hurting). I know I've had some problems communicating what feels right, but honestly, I don't know what works for me and nothing we try seems to feel quite right.

Is it possible that I really can't have an orgasm with another person? I'm starting to feel like it really is impossible, which is making me lose interest in the physical side of this budding relationship. It's not like I don't enjoy it, but it's so frustrating that I can't feel much.