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Originally Posted by TryingStill
Hi again!
I know the title stinks of reactionary chauvinism. Sorry for that. It's not my intention.
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It's simple, I guess, and probably I'm overanalizing, when I ought to rather not mind and just enjoy.
Anyway...
I love being on bottom. I love being rode by a woman. Not because I'm lazy. Actually, I love doggy, too. Missionary just doesn't make it for me (not yet, at least). But having the woman on top is one of the things I enjoy the most, if not the thing I enjoy the most.
What makes me worry is not being accused of laziness (which wouldn't be big deal), but feeling less of a man. Or feeling less of a man before women's eyes.
I mean... "Less of a man" in terms of control, initiative, "alphamaleness", etcetera.
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In a way you are overanalyzing, but in a way you are underanalyzing. Let us try this: if woman on top makes you less of a man, and woman on the bottom makes you and alpha male, what do all sideways position make you? A couple of equals? What about sitting, standing, etc.?
See - if you actually try to analyze, you will see that your train of thought takes you to an illogical or absurd conclusion, which means that your premise is wrong.