You are blowing it out of proportion quite a lot, and, you are also very cerebral about it. Plus, the highly cerebral "theory" you have put together is simplistic. I do not know if that is possible, but you can just drop this train of thought altogether and be relaxed, that would solve the problem. I realize that you may not be able to control the thought process, so I am just offering this as a possible, but not necessarily feasible, solution.

+ women can look at breasts of other women because they appreciate their beauty

+ breasts are the ultimate symbol of comfort and nourishment - we are mammals right - and not just a sexual symbol. E.g. I really like when older women with large breasts wear blouses or dresses with a deep cleavage because it is just so comforting to me - I almost wish I could come and hug them. I was raised primarily by grandmothers, so that contributes to my personal view, but there are a million other reasons, viewpoints, preferences, etc.

Relax and breeze through your day, if you can. Smile more often and people will be looking at your face and not below the neck. The more gracious and open your smile, the more people of both genders will be drawn to your face.