My parents were also emotionally non-supportive and I felt "bullied" at home. They were neglectful too. I was SEVERELY nearsighted as a child, but didn't get glasses until I was 11! I mean I flat out failed every eye exam in school every year before that. I can't believe I went over a decade not being able to see really! Just because people have the ability to procreate DOES NOT mean they will do what's best or will be good parents. Something is wrong with them and it is not your fault.