I am sorry that you have had such horrid experiences. I do hope that you are getting help and support to work through this.

And in answer to your question, I would say yes. You were forced under threat, that is never ok....man or woman. I have experienced rape, sexual assault and more.

I would hope that the police could do something if you were to report, I imagine this would be such a great thing to do for your healing journey. Please have some support when approaching this too.

Take good kind care of yourself ok.

Do you have a therapist that can help you with this?