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Old Sep 21, 2014, 07:56 AM
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Originally Posted by pola_paris View Post
I absolutely love dogs, we have had their company since I was born. I think I like cats more though, but right now I can't have one because I'm living with my father and he doesn't want pets. I'm going to be living alone soon, so I may get one (I'm not sure because I'm always travelling somewhere and I would feel bad if I left it alone, so idk).

About social activities, I thought about taking up acting so I went to a near theatre to investigate but my working hours usually interfere with any activity I would want to do. That's so frustrating, but oh well, I'll see what I can do.

I hope your father gets healthy soon! And sorry, what's MH?
MH = Mental Health; I know, so many abbreviations out there. So Sorry.

Thanks for the well wishes for Dad.

It is hard to find things that mesh with our current situations and working hours or even if not working, just getting going, whether it be activities, animals, social interactions, etc; it can be hard to find a balance and what will work. I understand this all too well. T keeps reminding me it is important just to try something new as the depression in particular and other MH illnesses for that matter can keep us sheltered and isolated.

As far as the animals go, I used to not be able to have them as well due to my travels, then the depression was so bad (and despite being home all the time) I did not think I could take care of them again. So instead I volunteered at a shelter to help out and to exercise them so I could have interaction with them again, as I missed them so. I know this is not everyone's cup of tea but it helped to get out there and helped the critters too.

I like the idea of using humor too. It makes a world of difference to lighten up, even if at the simplest of things. It is a good escape.

I wish everyone well in finding what works for them to bring them joy in their road to wellness. Take good care and be well y'all.
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