I wouldn't pay too much attention to what people say over the internet, hamstergirl. (At least pay no attention to the bad stuff. We're the good guys here .)
Most of the time people don't know what they're talking about. Take what they say with a pinch of salt. (I think that's the phrase - looks weird written down. Anyway, what I mean is don't take what they say too seriously, because it's probably made up on the spot.)

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RIP Dexter...
<font color=red>The best dog ever!!!</font color=red>

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