Granite, my heart goes out to you. I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope your T will actually read the email since this is kind of a unique circumstances.

Healed, I'm right there with you in reference to sometimes not believing things. The longer it goes on, and the more inconsistent a story is, and the more a person seems to enjoy drama for the sake of drama, or attention just for the sake of getting attention, the less tolerance I have for it. Also, the forum atmosphere and/or "politics" or whatever you want to call it, is very interesting but also very upsetting to me. So, I am trying to stay out of everything except those threads where I feel comfortable just saying something like, 'Oh, I understand that feeling.' Even if I feel I have something super helpful to say, or resources to offer, I am trying to just sit on my fingers and type nothing.