MKAC- I think as a general rule PC wants us to be encouraging, supportive, and nice.. And that is why, I don't say a lot outside of this thread. I think some people need tough love, harsh words, or general bs called on them. However, I guess that is frowned upon.. So, I reply when I can be encouraging. The thing that bothers me is when I see something and I almost certain the person is making stuff up.. But, they have our genuinely caring members worried about them..that bothers me a lot.