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their feelings are recoprocated, and hanging onto hope like that, their feelings are kept from dying down. They stay stuck in their obsession that is probably never leading to anything....
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Good connection you made here.
Or it could be more behavioral: preoccupied attachment.
I really feel for you as I had obsessive thoughts/feelings for him for months. What made them go away for the most part was that he confronted me after I sent him another email about having obsessive thoughts about him.
They still come and go from time to time, but for the most part, I no longer obsess over him. Good luck; I know how agonizing it can be.
