I have NO idea what to do. We are supposed to leave in a few minutes to go to a few events and she's behaving really poorly. She's already gotten spanked twice today for being completely belligerent. By belligerent I mean drawing on the wall and floor, hitting, kicking, biting, punching breaking things etc. I offered to take her shopping tomorrow for dresses if she was good when we are out today and I really hope it works. I tried talking to her to ask what is wrong, putting her in timeout, cuddling her, distracting her, playing with her and a lot of other things but it isn't working. I'm hoping once we get in the car and start driving she starts to behave.

Does anyone have any advice or suggestions on how to handle this??