I always have difficulty at the end of sessions. My sessions are "supposed" to be 45min. We normal go to 50-55mins. We've had some issues going even beyond that.

The issue isn't that my T is good at ending. She usually says "I have to cut you off, but by then I'm calm. The issue is that she used to says "So we have a few minutes left, is there anything else you need before you leave?" For some reason, I choose that specific time to bring up something that really needs processing. I'd wind up breaking down, feelings uncared for, rejected, abandoned. We have finally established that she is no longer allowed to ask that question.