Hazel Girl, your t sounds awesome. And yours Myrto. I'm surprised that T's don't raise the endings themselves with us to negotiate a way to end. I will definitely talk to my T about it.

Jay bird it can't identify with you at all for finding sessions Waaaay too long. Don't you long to be there longer? That's how I feel.

Chartres I followed your link to your description of a kind of re-trauma. I had an experience of a re-trauma too. I have also pondered about the responsibility of a T in these situations. I hadn't realised therapy was so powerful and that that could happen, maybe we could do another thread about that sometime, I'm sure we're not the only ones.