Welcome to PC!

I think we need more information to help you.

You indicated that you married for all the wrong reasons - what do you consider these? Stayed with him for the kids...I stayed with my wife for 3 years additional for that same reason.

Love is a funny thing in marraige...Have the two of you talked about this. Love can come and go in a marraige...something no one seems to really talk about. Have the two of you beeen to counseling?

I used divorce as an absolute last choice...I do have a lot of information I can help you with if you truly believe you have exhausted all other possibilities...