Sounds like something I deal with time to time. What is the cause of this? I am married for 23 yrs. and get into daydreaming of different fantasies of the sort, mostly a romantic encounter with a guy from the mid 1700's, you know the breeches,waistcoat,pirate type shirts, but it is not of anyone I know just someone I create, this is weird. Most of the time the fantasy is not sexual, it is more of flirting and real caring afterwards. Some fantasies of real people that do not even know or who wish to ignore me, can leave me shot down. Is this what being in my mid 40's has done to me? I even feel guilty around my husband just having these fantasies, am I really being unfaithful? or just creative? I have even shared this with him a while ago he kind of "got off" on it
but I wonder if he would if he knew some are of real people?
What you said is true it can consume one's hours and moods. Is this something I should tell my therapist of something that is strange for me to deal with will she have heard of this addiction or think I am looking to fool around with other men?
"darkeyes"