I think the doc is absolutely right itsjustme. It is OK to hold onto some hope but don't make your success or failure (emotionally) revolve around that. The most important thing is to stick with your plan and get treatment. That is going to give you the strength to deal with this either way and if your ex is finally relenting then that will be an added bonus.

I also believe that once you are more "grounded" you will be much better able to deal with either scenario... make the most of it if it is good, and continue to work at it if it is not.

Work hard in the hospital for your own welfare. Don't hold stuff back. We wish you the best, and we will be here to hear how you make out.

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