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It was a punishment anyway, (not responding according to our agreement) and it was unfair of you to do. It might help the tone of our sessions if you didn't mock me when I try to talk about what's bothering me. It might help if you did not respond with sarcasm. It might help if you did not respond with frustration. I don't create the atmosphere in these bad sessions by myself. I am trying to tell you something very specific each time I have brought up the fee increase issue, but you are focusing on the wrong part of what I'm saying, you grasp one half and completely ignore the other, more important piece of what I'm trying to communicate to you. I don't feel heard, and that is making ME frustrated, and upset. I don't understand how you feel it's okay to mock me, even if you think I'm wasting time, it's inappropriate and hurts my feelings. Obviously I need to process it and it isn't being resolved, you arent hearing what I'm saying you aren't responding to what Im saying which is why it keeps coming up over and over again.
I really just need you to listen. I don't know another way to say this; I need you to keep your frustration and pissed off feelings at being accused out of my sessions. I need you to hear what I'm really saying and not what you think I'm saying bc you're not listening to all of my words.
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Is this ok to email her or is it combative or should I wait and add it to what I intend to read to her on Wednesday?
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