Phil - I struggle with this needing a DX.

I think it is from my black and white thinking...reading through this post, it sounds you may have the same style of thinking as I do? It's got to be black or it's got to be white.

I hear what the others are saying that it is more grey and that it doesn't matter; however, if you are like me - there is not much they can say to actually internalizing the grey. I hear it, but...