i once paid a guy to leave a relationship we were in. seriously. paid him to move out i wanted it to end so badly. you can always find a way out. do you have friends to stay with? a couch to crash on? if he threatens you get a restraining order. if he then still bothers you he will be thrown in jail. if you have no where to go then try a local womens shelter.

who cares if you lied. he has zero right to treat you this way. i am sure he would not appreciate it if he was forced to do the same thing. he does not sound like he is a perfect example of a human and should not expect you to be either. be a strong woman and get the crap out. i have issues with my boyfriend wanting to record mw when we fight cause i am the crier and he says nothing to control the situation. that is abusive too. i made it clear that it he would never do it again or his phone would be broken. and he needs to go to therapy and couples therapy to learn to communicate or i am leaving.

you can always leave.