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Old Sep 22, 2014, 02:00 AM
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Originally Posted by JoeS21 View Post
She isn't like that. She's mean, fast, smart, and in control of her tone of voice. Her tone is usually deceivingly professional and calm sounding which makes her false words and lies easier for others to believe. She puts words in my mouth and makes things up out of nowhere, in addition to twisting things I do actually say. I'm trying to stay away from her as much as possible. I think she enjoys fighting and bringing other people down.


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She doesn't stop talking for a second and does not even hear things like that. It's a volume contest until you've won. Then she resorts to trying to paint you in a negative light by accusing you of needing to "calm down," suggesting that you are out of line. It's a dirty trick where your natural instinct is to speak louder and then become antagonized, proving her right.


If you don't have a volume contest, then she keeps talking and twists the story so that she's saying all sorts of offensive untrue things about you in front of everyone.

Then if she is keeping her tone controlled and you are having a volume-contest, aren't you the one who is over talking her?

Does she incite you to lose your cool on purpose? Do you lose your cool in the face of her calm manipulation? It sounds like you are the one who could face punitive actions from above!



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