Sometimes it's better to receive support from friends than siblings. I left California where I lived in the same city with 3 siblings with their own family just to look for a job. I live here in Kansas for over 3 years now as a complete stranger where I found job related to my career. My youngest sister with good job in the state government were living in my house which I left for foreclosure didn't pay her utilities. Collection agencies were sending me her bills. My other sister defended her.

How did my siblings treat me? They caused me emotional pains! They mistreated me big time! I never heard from them for over 3 years now. My entire family gather together during birthdays and holidays, wish they would video call with me so I can feel that I am with their celebration. Not even phone call that I received during those days.

Maybe, I expected too much from them? I realized it's OK that they had forgotten me because they are raising their kids properly, at least I am no longer there with them that I may had caused them pains if I would not had found job there. I am satisfied here, I have several good friends who are checking up on me every now and then.

I am happy that my nephews and nieces are doing great in college/school. I feel bad that I was not able to help them out financially.

Maybe they are supporting you but it may not be the way you expected. At least, your father is there to support you.