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SecretGarden said:
I once sent him a mother's day card.

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You mean you don't routinely send your T a Mother's Day card? I did! I GAVE her cards for all events; one of the hardest though was Valentine's Day! I found a really good one one year though, the front said, "You always wish I would tell you how I feel. . ." You open it up and it says, "Fine. I feel just fine."

I had a great time picking out cards as it was so hard (didn't pick out birthday card for her as I had no idea when it was) and said so much about me and what I thought of our relationship, etc. When I'd get frustrated because I couldn't find anything "appropriate" I'd laugh and try to imagine, if I were designing a card what it would say? I'd finally "settle" for something in the card rack at the store as being much "easier."

I started with sending my T cards when she went away on vacation for a zillion weeks and there was this wonderful black and white card with a little girl on the front looking out of a window longingly, you can see she misses someone who's away and you open it and it just said, "You can come back anytime now!"