I am also virgin and have 20 years, it's not due to my looks i had been told i am cute and my body its okay, the main problem is that i can't talk to girls it's quite dificult probably due to the social anxiety with girls its alot more dificult to handle and i also believe no one would want me for what i am and in conversations with girls you always need to speak about your past and i don't like to speak about my past.

I also have strong sexual desires but oh well, im kinda used to being alone and unhappy or empty so i don't even try to change that, when the time comes it comes, i have other more important problems to attend to right now.