I know it's a slight old topic, but I ran across it and it is a topic very close to me. I've had this very issue in my session with my T and we have both had a lot of discussions about it. Anyone who's looked at my previous posts and profile will see that I've had issues with ED due to a back injury. It's not that I can't get aroused and have erections, it's just that I can't feel my penis and have satisfying or complete sexual intercourse.

Both my T and my doctor have theorized that my bisexuality could have been the reason for my ED, in that I may not be attracted to my wife anymore and my lack of satisfaction may be because I actually want to be with men. I can say that my T and I have had some seriously detailed discussions on actual sexual activities, acts, desires, fantasies that include men, women and both. I know I've had at least one session where I spent literally the whole hour with an erection. It's natural...how can one talk about their deepest sexual fantasies and not get aroused.

And it's hard to hide, especially for a man. In fact, when we talked about whether I can get aroused by my wife as well as by another man, I have actually pointed at my erection to show my T that I am more than capable of having erections for many triggers including my wife. I remember that this has happened at least once with my doctor as well.

My problem is that I always leave my appointment with a severe sense of guilt over these events. I feel that I have crossed or been pushed over a line that makes what happened inappropriate. I know logically that getting aroused talking about sexual fantasies, desires and acts is human nature, and that it is normal to get an erection. Even though I haven't been intimate with another man since long before I was married, I know I am still bisexual because just he thought of any sex with a guy gets me hard. So why is it that I feel I have done something wrong when my T and my doctor are supposed to be helping me with sexual issues?