I was shy with this guy. The big first thing I gave him was a heaping spoonful in a bag of my Thanksgiving stuffing. That was one thing I knew that I could do well. That was a big step funny enough. He seemed bewildered but then shared that he made a meal around it though I think he changed it.

We exchanged Birthday and Christmas cards and then I gave him gifts near the end and visa versa near the end of our time. However, this was a special time for me and I know I spent more than an hour picking out the right card and writing the sentament to make it perfect before adding it to my card. It touched him I know as he called me. It was a Mother's Day card to my male Pdoc... telling him he gave me the things my mother was not able to do. I xeroxed it before I sent it but it was a beautiful card. It was a keeper I think and it has stayed important to my heart too as it spoke my heart. Trust... Thanks... Love....