granite - i'm sorry your day got messed up, i'm with sd, take the dirty clothes home with you and do the rest of your plans for the day. You deserve to do good stuff for YOU!!

rTerroni hope your throat starts feeling better.

healed wish I had some words of wisdom for you but can only offer hugs and sending good thoughts your way

aaa I'm sorry your h is like that to you, that's got to be so hard, i'm sending good thoughts your way as well

and everyone else too, i'm heading off to work now and probably won't be back around for a few days, working half a day then have to come home and pack cuz we're heading for northern CA tomorrow morning to visit my h's family. we have a long drive ahead of us!! have a good week everybody.