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Old Sep 22, 2014, 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Echos Myron View Post
In the UK there is a professional association for Ts which they can join called the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (bacp). It's not a requirement to join but it is generally recognised that it is better to find a T who is a member (I was advised to look for a bacp member when choosing a T).
My T is a member according to his website and I've never thought to question that, but I recently did a search of the register on the bacp website and neither he nor his wife (also a counsellor) were on there.
I emailed the bacp and asked if there was any reason a T wouldn't be listed and I received a reply saying that his registration could have lapsed, or it is possible, since the register is quite new, that he might be a member but not have signed the register (it does say 'registered' on his website).
The bacp said they can check his membership if I give them his name and area. I'm not sure whether I want to do that as I would feel like I'm sneaking around on him, but I'm not sure if I want to ask him because I don't want him to think I'm doubting him. He's been a good T to me and I don't doubt his professionalism. So should it even matter?
I don't think he would lie, and i am sure there is a simple explanation like the bacp email said, but the niggling doubt is bothering me a bit.
Are you sure you looked on the register and not just on the find a therapist register? I say this because some people get confused about which is which. The list of therapists on itsgoodtotalk are therapists who choose to advertise there (and pay for that). The register is a list of names of all those who have filled in the registration form, a new requirement. It doesn't mean he isn't a bacp member. He may just not have filled in the form!

It would be useful to talk about your worries with your therapist and to explore what it means for him to be on the register/how it feels not knowing if he is. Perhaps it has left you feeling unsafe? That is all part of your therapy and it's ok to talk about it.

Moon