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Originally Posted by InRealLife45
It doesn't. And I would want her to be honest and tell me that instead of talking in circles and insisting she does want to see me that she's always trying to convince me to come back. If that's the truth I can accept it but I want to hear it. Not decipher it by reading between the lines.
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People with huge issues WON'T admit it. They cannot handle the damage it would do to their self esteem to admit it's their issue. Her behavior is telling you everything you need to know. You already know the answer, and you know that she is so defensive and entrenched in her position that she cannot acknowledge any part of her responsibility in this situation. Maybe it's time to stop using the 'I want her to admit it" excuse, and acknowledge you don't want to leave for some reason and try to figure out what that reason is, so you can work on that, to try to get to a place where you can save yourself. Because this woman sure as hell isn't going to save you or even help you a little bit.