I just want to say I think I can relate....my needs are overwhelming to me. They aren't really about my T, but they settle there sometimes...I am in the middle of a neediness monsoon and without the ability to articulate it all to my T. I sat there tonight in the midst of fits of frustration and so embarrassed and fearing being misunderstood. And disappointed and deflated that I couldn't articulate it to him. I told him I don't like people seeing me like that...he thanked me for coming anyway and said he was glad I did. I know deep down in my heart my T is the right person for me right now. It's just so painful to feel my neediness and have few words. My T seems to understand more often than not....and that's all I think I can hope for at this point.

I'm not sure if finding someone else would fix it or not...it can't hurt to try. Then you could get a new perspective and maybe it would help you move forward more quickly. Does your T have a disclosed opinion on the matter?