Granite...this really isn't my place but I'm going to say it anyway... Please talk to your T and your H about the day your mom really needs permanent help... Please please do not let your mother move in with you... There are so many steps other choices...like assisted living... Retirement centers...retirement homes, etc.. Have your H refuse to allow it in case you ever forget this week or get to feeling really guilty! You could chose one of those options in your state if that is better for you.

Remember what Wiki went through....

Stepping down off my soapbox now