It can be a fine line discussing difficult topics. If you get too emotionally invested in remembering/experiencing what you are talking about it can get hard to "hear" T and keep working with her because all your energy will be wrapped up in your head and what's going on inside you and you might have a hard time "getting out" and you might not be able to "let her in" to help discuss with you what you are experiencing. It can be like being thrown into the pool and, depending on the depth and how well you have/have not learned to swim/dog paddle :-) you could get in trouble.

Since it is still early days, you don't know one another well enough to know how to judge depth/how well you swim yet.