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Originally Posted by Red75
Okay, have decided will talk to t on Thursday....
Just one last question... 
Can someone suggest a way of phrasing it?i can't even think about it without wanting to literally die, let alone put it into words. Any ideas, words, phrases to start me off? To describe that feeling...and where....ugh. |
Something that might help here is a phrase I read on this board ages ago and pull out in these kinds of dire situations -
"30 seconds of courage"
That's all it takes. I kind of mutter it before I have something really awkward to say and it helps with launching into the difficult sentence.
As for wording - I like Hazel Girl's suggestion of going it with it feeling weird when you talk about the feelings, and then as a stepping stone off that I would say that I have mixed feelings, and then mention the arousal mixed in with the other stuff.