View Single Post
 
Old Sep 23, 2014, 10:01 PM
Rose76's Avatar
Rose76 Rose76 is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Mar 2011
Location: USA
Posts: 12,848
This is a situation in which there is no "right thing" IMHO. It's a matter of what you want. This guy is never going to pull his weight financially in the relationship. At the same time, being alone can feel very . . . well . . . lonely. That's what you are going through now. It takes time to get over a breakup. Two weeks is no where near the time it takes.

You just have to ask yourself, "Am I so lonely that I would rather support this guy than be without him." If the answer is "No," then you did the right thing. He's never going to change . . . never, never, never.

Can you do better for yourself in the realm of relationships? Well, there is no guarantee. But you are guaranteed not to do better, if you don't kick him out of your life. You're a lady doing well enough to keep a roof over your head. Seems to me there is a good chance you can do better than this leech. I hope you do.
Hugs from:
LookingforCalm
Thanks for this!
Bill3, hamster-bamster, healingme4me, LookingforCalm, shezbut, Trippin2.0