I'm a 33 year old female and just got dumped Sunday morning.
I was dating a man 12 years older, with 2 daughters (15 and 25). I have no children. We were together for 3 months (not long, I know) but the relationship moved pretty fast in that time. I still had my own apartment but basically lived at his house. He has broken up with me once before but came back and I took him back.
I really liked this guy, he made me feel safe and secure. But.....he's very rude. Never says please when asking for things, never says thank you, leaves me to carry bags from shopping or eating out in by myself, never responds to my text messages and I never knew what kind of mood he would be in when I got home from work every day. The list goes on and on......I just can't deal with the fact that he made the decision to walk away. I was very good to him and his reason for the breakup is because I refused to preform an intimate act on him and told him not to touch me because I was on the first day of my period. I asked that he not try to initiate sexual contact with me for the first 2 days of my period each month because I just feel awful. Apparently, I was rude to him when I said it (we had been drinking the night before the breakup, that's when this happened). I don't believe that I was, unless he was really pushing my buttons.
He told me to pack up my things the next morning and that he didn't deserve to be treated this way. Haven't talked to him since and I'm so sad.
I guess I'm looking for input about how to get back to my single happy self. I feel like I've been punched in the gut and have no desire to hang out with my friends. I was dumped in January of this year after a longer relationship and was devastated and cried for days. I'm not crying this time because I feel he's not worth my tears.
Any input, comments, recommendations would be greatly appreciated. [emoji20]