I will miss this forum if I quit, but I'm worried I have disclosed too much, been too honest, and if it tracks back to me i'll be in real trouble. I don't have any identifying info, but still. I value the people and friendships here, it's really nice. But I don't know if it's safe for me to be so open I haven't hidden anything here because I've wanted to be genuine and get feedback from people who have the whole story on things. And I try to give supportive feedback to others too. I'm reassured that my damaging posts will be quickly buried by all the activity here. I'm not sure how I will proceed, but I might take a break and think about it. I appreciate all the help i've gotten here, it carried me through some difficult times, and congratulated some successes, and of course i like following what's happening with everyone else. Such a cool place... Maybe i'm being paranoid. Not too sure. I know i'm going to tone down some of what i've been up to lately, and just chill for a while.

Xo