I look at attachment style as a way of relating, coping, and getting our needs met. This may play out in ways people might not think to attribute to attachment style, but I feel has to do with attachment style. For instance, the anxious insecure has a tendency to want to move toward others to get needs met and the avoidant insecure has a tendency to move away from others to get needs met. Ever have an disagreement with a friend and want desperately to talk things through (anxious) while they withdraw (avoidant)?