I noticed reading through different posts that a lot of you have T's who tell you they care about you or that they love you. My T has never said anything like that to me. She is kind, understanding, atuned, compassionate and is there for me when I need her. But the closest she has ever come to sharing how she feels about me is when I was sui (I told her she was one of the people I cared about it impacting on), she stated that 'Yes. I would be devestated if you ...'.
I think she cares. Her behaviours tell me that she cares. Still, I wish my T would tell me that she cares.
Did your T's volunteer that they care for you or did you ask? I really don't think I could ask - if I did I would cry while asking, and that's just too embarrassing.
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