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Old Sep 24, 2014, 10:31 AM
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Poohbah
 
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Originally Posted by HazelGirl View Post
What do you want? You want her to reassure you and tell you it's okay. She said she will not do that via text, but if you wanted to make an appointment she was totally okay with that. So do you want an appointment to be able to discuss this stuff?

The problem is she HAS done it via text and I didn't know our boundaries had changed. I didn't think it would be a big deal for her to say something quick. I hate that it even matters....
I think it just came with bad timing of me being so emotional yesterday. I was so glad she responded but never anticipated one that seemed distant and not very personal.
I am now taking my joint session tonight with my H just for me to talk about this and these feelings. As the clock ticks down, I can feel myself repress my emotions which is the opposite of what I want to do.