Granite, i agree. I have been talking with my t just this week about how if a boss wanted to see me at work, or even if a credit card bill came in the mail, i would just panic. I kinda wish i could remember what the mother did to scare the life out of me, but then again maybe i should be glad i dont. Because this panic is waaaaay out of proportion to reality. I got it a couple of weeks ago when my friend texted to ask me how i was. Wtf was that??