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Originally Posted by George H.
What could possibly be the problem with someone who isn't that turned on by their gf anymore? It makes no sense at all. Nothing has changed. I can look at it objectively and know that nothing has changed physically or emotionally. She is very attractive... It has to be some kind of psychological issue right?
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One thing has changed - time has passed. You don't talk about how long you've been together, but the actual time period doesn't matter. Relationships change as they mature, and it is natural. There's a reason why an old married guy like myself isn't chasing the wife around the house all the time. It doesn't have to mean something is wrong.
Of course, Little Lulu's observations are also valid - there could be a physical change. Could be a combination.
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Originally Posted by George H.
Maybe I really don't deserve anything good in my life.
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I broke this out because it simply isn't true. Everyone deserves happiness. Unfortunately that's no guarantee that we'll get it.