I am a good father and do almost all the housework. Her work does not give her the the amount of time off thet I get which has led to me and the kids taking vacations the last 3 years without her. When she is off work we just sit at the house she does not want to go anywhere. I take the kida and go wIthout, the kids need a life. She had a really crappy childhood growing up not knowing her mother until she was 14. Thought it would not affect her as an adult/ parent, now I am truly wondering? I am very affectionate and love to cuddle, she just pulls away and never initiates any sex or even hold hands. If I dont start it it wont happen. I am always calling her sexy, beautiful and gorgeous. I never get a complement of any sorts in return or spontanious. Having kids makes it tough. I want to just get in the car and leave. She can have the house and all inside I just do not want my kids going through a divorce and definently do not want to lose my kids. I am only with her at this point because of them.