I agree with Motown here....
1st thing 1st ..... beauty is a perception attitude with a purpose or desire it what is needed here. Because your 32 years old and never had a girlfriend isn't the problem
What I read from the initial posts is that you stay home 99% of the time. Well change your habits go out for walks --- try at first just say Hi and making eye contact then progress further with conversations
2nd exploit your hobbies : If you are a gamer then find groups of gamers you'll have similar interests . If you work out locate work out partners. Truly what a woman wants overall is a good man ... one that will be there when she needs you . One that can empathize with them. One that can help when needed and understand when you yourself don't understand
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Originally Posted by MotownJohnny
You won't like this, it may offend you. I am only going to say this because I have been in places where it felt hopeless. Like it could never get better.
It's not hopeless. It can get better. You just have to want it more than you wanted anything in your life, because it will be the hardest thing you ever do. Your choice, be a winner or be a quitter.
And yes, a therapist would help you a lot. Consider contacting community mental health or other agencies in your area and see what they can do for you.
You can choose to believe this or not, but I know what I am saying, been there done that as they say. Weight, depression, isolation, anxiety. It can be fixed with hard work and perserverance.
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