I have been with my boyfriend since I was 16, and since he was 18. We were together for a year and a half and then he broke up with me on my 18th birthday due to lack of trust from both of us. Four months later after no speaking and him being with other girls he came back to me and said he wanted to be back together. I thought about this a lot and told him yes as long as we trusted eachother. A year later we were great, but then I had my doubts again and bece the untrusting person I was before. He was going out with friends a lot more and not telling me what he was doing, if I went out on a night out with friends I had to tell him and let him know when I got home, whether it be eleven I clock at night or four I clock in the morning I had to let him know. He however didn't. He then cheated on me several times and slept with somebody he had been with when we broke up. We then broke up for a second time. Again a couple of months past and he contacted me again. I told myself I wouldn't let it happen again bit he said everything had changed and that he didn't want to be that person anymore. I believed him and we got back together. When we got back together all his friends took a disliking to me and started saying stuff about me over Facebook about how I kept him on a lead and didn't let him out, I didn't he made this choice to try and gain back my trust, they started calling me fat over Facebook and saying that I'd had an abortion and lots of nasty things about me. My boyfriend had a go at them and then decided he wanted nothing to do with them. A year on , he's decided to get back in touch with them. And I said to him I really was not happy about it. And that I didn't know whether I could be with him due to this. Am I being too nasty about all of this? We hadn't spoken for a week and I contacted him today to ask what was happening , and he said that I had broken up with him , which I wasn't aware of. I really don't want to break up with him as I really do love him. My family have taken him in as his dad died an the only family he has is his mum. We look after them both , we being me and my family. After a long discussion tonight I said I was willing to see if we could make it work with him being back in touch with them and he said no because I already broke up with him. I said okay. But then he kept pushing and pushing saying he'd planned on going to Amsterdam with them all and asked if I could deal with that? I said yes. He then told me that one of them is moving in with him and his mum and wether I could deal with that. I said yes, and he then said he needs to think about it. Am I wasting my time, he is 22 and I am 20. Is all this worth the hassle at this age? I mean I really do love him and love spending time with him and so do all of my family. I think it is worth it. I just need somebody else's view on it who isn't involved. Thank you.