my T has said many times that he cares about me "very much". sometime he just says it. and sometimes i just ask him if he cares. but he also shows me that he cares thru his actions.

i do not think i would want my T to say that he loved me. i would find that confusing. even though i feel like i love him as a person and he is important to me. i would not want him to say that to me.