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Originally Posted by seraphic
Yes, you can stop yourself. I think the problem is you don't want to. Your hands don't move on their own; you keep choosing to touch her. You need to accept that doing so is not ok, choose to stop, and then stop. Telling yourself that you can't is only perpetuating the problem.
People don't say "oh, I agreed that I wouldn't murder a friend, but I just can't stop myself from stabbing her." How is this situation any different, at all.
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I don't want to want it. But most people can want that but control themselves. I've been trying to control myself for months and I'm afraid of where it will lead. Of course I want it, but this sort of desire isn't normal.