hahaha, i can't read your posts anymore because every time i do, I'm like... "hey.... that's a good idea..." now i want to ask my t that.
i think you should ask her.... it's a risk, just like anything is in therapy... you will probably have the courage.
if i ask my t, he won't answer. i will say, "how would you feel if i just quit?" and he will say, "how do you think i would feel?" and then i would kill him. wait, no. but i would end up getting frustrated and cursing at him.
last session he said that he knew some of the feelings i was experiencing, but he wanted me to identify them. i was getting so frustrated at the fact that apparently knew more about me that i did. i literally almost jumped out of the chair to choke him.
mouse, it would be interested for you to weigh the consequences of what you think her answer will be. it's a risky question; don't know if i could attempt it. i want the assurance... i want him to say, "i would be devastated and i would close my practice. DON'T DO THIS TO ME!!" but that is fantasy, and to deal with the reality is a much more risky thing.
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