What?

It's not like I can talk about this around the dinner table or at the water cooler at work...

And you (as the OP) did open up the discussion for guys. I originally replied to the post so as to give the perspective of a person that can and has given and received. You may find it odd, but even though I have vaginal intercourse with my wife, and have received an@l from other men and my wife, I for some reason can't give an@l to anyone. A slightly imbalanced situation.